-i do not appreciate you taking out on me, your frustrations that are strictly centered around the general situation.
-i do not appreciate the particular talent you have at speaking about a situation between us as if i am to blame for the entire thing.
-i do not appreciate you reading things into my words in the first place so that we could start this all over again.
-i do not appreciate you being unable to admit when i was asking you point blank, that you had allowed your defensiveness to take over in order to read things into them in the first place.
-i do not appreciate being attacked because i’m not as talkative as you might have liked.
-i do not appreciate your hypocracy that shined through when i verbalized that i don’t appreciate what just happened on the phone and said that i wanted to get off the phone, and then you hung up on me.
-i put all my effort into being reasonable and mature during the conversation and i don’t appreciate that you didn’t do the same.
-i do not appreciate your inability to anticipate that maybe i’m tired after working 8 straight days in a row, and maybe i just don’t have a lot to say about anything. and maybe when i say that nothing in particular is wrong, just maybe you could take my words at face value instead of reading a bunch of stuff into that as well, so that you get defensive all over again, swear and get angry.
-i do not appreciate that i love you and we can’t talk to each other.
-i do not appreciate that you can’t just will things to automatically be better…that there is all this difficulty and hurt in between it all.
